How to get your ex back
Almost every couple eventually experiences a crisis, when a man and a woman have to distance themselves from each other. However, when for one this gap is stretched only for a certain period, for others it could be forever.
As a rule, the essence of the recommendations on this issue boils down to the following: do not try to return him, look how many other men are good and different. But a loving woman has a strong feeling, she absolutely does not care about the diversity of the male population, she need the only one single man for some reason.
Tips like "Forget it and find yourself someone new" have a 100% right to exist only in cases where the main character of the novel is killed by a man-picker, and not by a worthy hero. And if you really love someone and you are sure that he also had serious feelings about you yesterday, then why don’t you try to you’re your relationships a second chance?
Therefore, there are some tips on how to get your loved one back:
1. Be calm! Do not indulge in panic and hysteria: even if he has left, it isn’t a diagnosis of your love yet. According to statistics, up to 70% of men regret the interrupted relations and strive for their restoration.
2. Do not overcome it with your calls and messages, do not pursue the requirements "We need to talk and urgently”." Give him some time to cool down, weigh everything and understand that you need him, too. Of course, there are situations where a man goes to another woman, but this also does not happen just for the sake of either. Most likely, over some time he will consider his action and weigh all the pros and cons.
3. Learn how to change. Both externally and internally. Change the style of behavior. Imagine yourself as an actress who learns the role of "woman in a million", and think about how such a woman would behave. Do not show that you have a personal drama. Try to behave easily, smile more, and be with everyone extremely friendly and welcoming. You say it's hard? Nevertheless, you are saying that you are ready to do anything to return your beloved man, and this is the most difficult test.
4. Change your style and image. Color the hair or cut it a little. Upgrade your wardrobe. By the way, do you know what should be in the women's clothes?
5. Do not try to take revenge. If you start a new romance with another man just only for annoying the former one, you will not get satisfaction from the new relationship. Although they say that the best remedy for problematic love is a new love, the stress is still on the word "love", and not on the word "revenge".
6. Finally, just think about the good. We build our life only with our hands. Often think about the fact that you will definitely be together, that he will return to you, and this will happen one day. Be happy!